tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post1084515604874932687..comments2023-10-29T14:12:45.958+05:30Comments on Hope and Love: Self sufficiencyhope and lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18135603451114081505noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-35801992600297632702008-12-23T18:44:00.000+05:302008-12-23T18:44:00.000+05:30women's helplessness is so painful and frustra...women's helplessness is so painful and frustrating. It's time women rise and voice out their suffocation and frustration. Last but not the least....people like Ganga's *&^%$# husband should be shot in public!!!Suparnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16979125766492096875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-4232060015722941112008-02-13T15:18:00.000+05:302008-02-13T15:18:00.000+05:30hey!It is really sad that such things happen.. And...hey!<BR/><BR/>It is really sad that such things happen.. And this happens not just in some good for nothing places but also in uber ultra modern society too.. isnt that sad??<BR/><BR/>Broke my heart! this did!Winnie the poohihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11445691463105808647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-45018601141962345592007-11-29T23:02:00.000+05:302007-11-29T23:02:00.000+05:30ahhh... my fellow native, but who will call us bol...ahhh... my fellow native, but who will call us bold, spunky and smart?<BR/><BR/>... other female friends who feel bad that we are still single, while they are all happily married and have two kids (all within a quarter century of existence)??<BR/><BR/>... parents, who are being pressurized by their friends and the extended family to get us married off and that we are helpless without a man to look after us?<BR/><BR/>... male colleagues and friends who think that we are arrogant, snobbish and need to be 'taught a lesson' in good manners?<BR/><BR/>... other women who tell you to live like a small town girl and not to forget one's roots?<BR/><BR/>I dont expect such words from them - i will be happy of they call me a bitch because i did not adhere to their definition of me.Suryahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16244950142476574673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-27649824455521761232007-11-10T08:15:00.000+05:302007-11-10T08:15:00.000+05:30It tears my heart to hear of such stories..and ang...It tears my heart to hear of such stories..and angers me enuf to beat up the criminal :-/ I've no idea how docs manage to witness this day after day and remain sane!My kudos to u..really.Dihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03453853580120725506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-48130214906739451342007-11-08T17:01:00.000+05:302007-11-08T17:01:00.000+05:30its really sad to hear incidents like the one u ha...its really sad to hear incidents like the one u have narrated.its precisly events like them which makes me agnostic.looks like there is lot of manufacturing defects in the factory of god....or else how come such rascals are born?if only there was court of law where God could be sued,I would have been the first one to sue him.for all his negligence,for all his mal administration of this world.for all the poverty and hunger,for all the misery of living being.Fighter Jethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08197506343868903761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-36421671434172176862007-11-05T19:15:00.000+05:302007-11-05T19:15:00.000+05:30yea Anu...uv again brought up an important issue.....yea Anu...uv again brought up an important issue....yes women themselves can and should learn to help themselves..<BR/>abt the annonymous comment....well,all i have to say is that someone somewhere is awefully jeoulous of u...ur kind nature and ur goodwill...so jeolous that he/she writes such things to u in a public place like ur blog...dont worry anu...the person himself is making a fool of himself....u carry on and write whatever u feel like.!Aashihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12370799256049978721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-35241206947407307872007-11-05T11:23:00.000+05:302007-11-05T11:23:00.000+05:30I just dont understand why people are like this .....I just dont understand why people are like this .....feeling very sad..... :(<BR/><BR/>what will happen to that kid ??<BR/>Why is the world like this !!!!aphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02473216880616956056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-68304381064124512762007-11-03T19:32:00.000+05:302007-11-03T19:32:00.000+05:30SHOCKING!!! but sadly there are many cases of abus...SHOCKING!!! but sadly there are many cases of abuse which don't get publicized...u're right hope the day soon arrives teh victim ceases to be one and learns to stand up....aMushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191649124291527517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-76939685942245978102007-11-03T09:15:00.000+05:302007-11-03T09:15:00.000+05:30Your post's given me the goosebumps of a lifetime....Your post's given me the goosebumps of a lifetime. I keep hearing of such things in the media and around us, but never ever got to hear it like this....and i'm pretty sure its a lot like this out there in the vicious world. <BR/>Now i'm in half a mind to put that useless husband through the same treatment...cos nothing else will give him salvation.Pratshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10849938760602815322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-56919617774879511312007-10-31T20:04:00.000+05:302007-10-31T20:04:00.000+05:30high time, yes!I am notsure how to respond to this...high time, yes!<BR/><BR/>I am notsure how to respond to this. the issue is not just this one case. <BR/><BR/>But yes, the women folk need to be educatedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-26360608745462384582007-10-31T00:57:00.000+05:302007-10-31T00:57:00.000+05:30true. the sadder part is there are many so called ...true. the sadder part is there are many so called 'spunk,brave, self-sufficient' girls who put up with lots of such nonsense for the sake of keeping their famil together. to what end is the question.wanderlusthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00864855488441029322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-69098072735665632932007-10-30T21:24:00.000+05:302007-10-30T21:24:00.000+05:30I don't know what to say or write. Sometimes words...I don't know what to say or write. Sometimes words fails you. I have a cousin who works in an NGO. She tells similar stories and worse :( And you know what, even though we are shocked to hear this, people who work in NGOs and other govt welfare bodies come accros such cases <I>everyday</I>!!silverinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16474136215458639419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-43259407574257973482007-10-30T20:49:00.000+05:302007-10-30T20:49:00.000+05:30There. I've done your tag. :)http://perplexingsimp...There. I've done your tag. :)<BR/>http://perplexingsimplicity.blogspot.com/2007/10/purple-dreamer.htmlAdorable Pancreashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05824201985240804750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-70742029355894987162007-10-30T10:14:00.000+05:302007-10-30T10:14:00.000+05:30i am a regular reader of your blog and this time i...i am a regular reader of your blog and this time i couldnt stop me from putting this comment...<BR/><BR/>your blog is a very good one....<BR/><BR/>dont bother about some of these childish comments.....some people will not ever change...<BR/><BR/>please continue.....<BR/>we all are eagerly waiiting:)Unnikuttanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11982224554065128406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-27225935104378094782007-10-27T08:01:00.000+05:302007-10-27T08:01:00.000+05:30txs everybody.anon,i know it is brutual and sad. m...txs everybody.<BR/>anon,<BR/>i know it is brutual and sad. maybe its the brutuality that made you respond like that.yes part of it is fiction. i cant report my case exactly cos of professional reason. but my intention of the post was the feeling that its high time we consider characters like quietness timidity etc features of an ideal woman. for eg the word 'pavam' for a woman. a pavam woman will find it difficult to live in a brutual world. but i request you to plz google search 'hina fathima'. she too had corneal burns'.<BR/>as for comments if you read my other posts and the comments you will realize im not eager to increase my comments. infact i often feel that i dont take enough time to answer the comments compared to the time i take to prepare my posts. <BR/>ps. i have never told anywhere thats its true life stories that i report i here. i just wish to get some points across. i may use fact or fiction for it. its my right as a writer. there are lot of fiction novels and short stories written as 'I' ie first person view point. . that doesnt mean they are all true life incidents of the writer. <BR/>txs for the feedbackhope and lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18135603451114081505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-36653365705297609102007-10-27T00:08:00.000+05:302007-10-27T00:08:00.000+05:30how prudish, sentimental, saddistic.......cooked-u...how prudish, sentimental, saddistic.......cooked-up stories!!! Expectation: Scoring comments?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-18307000087694114292007-10-27T00:05:00.000+05:302007-10-27T00:05:00.000+05:30damnation....damnation....-Poison-https://www.blogger.com/profile/16369562525527820769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-83373971651823176742007-10-26T18:31:00.000+05:302007-10-26T18:31:00.000+05:30It's very touching. Just couldn't stop my tears. W...It's very touching. Just couldn't stop my tears. Why some people are so cruel? Ignorance? :(venuss66https://www.blogger.com/profile/17804023747114879683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-60343195926801471202007-10-25T17:35:00.000+05:302007-10-25T17:35:00.000+05:30i'm not able to say what i feel now.....is it pain...i'm not able to say what i feel now.....is it pain for the poor woman and her father? i don't know.....is it anger against her so-called 'husband'? i don't know......i feel emotionless.....<BR/><BR/>hope world would be better for Quiet,Soft,Timid,Shy women in future....and they themselves and others help them, to be Bold,Spunky, Smart and Self sufficient.....and i pray that the hope comes true.....what else can i say?Emmanuelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05097538125525409752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-29075218459652151062007-10-25T10:42:00.000+05:302007-10-25T10:42:00.000+05:30The issue is a complex one. Main reasons are p...The issue is a complex one. Main reasons are poverty, illiteracy and other social factors.<BR/>POVERTY and SELF SUFFICIANCY do not go hand in hand.<BR/> THE OBSERVERAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-30644655697435177982007-10-24T18:43:00.000+05:302007-10-24T18:43:00.000+05:30am lost for words..I dont understand how man can b...am lost for words..I dont understand how man can behave irrationally like this.<BR/><BR/>Infact most of these stories are never heard outside.I have heard more of it in blogs than in print media.<BR/><BR/>I hope people change...stop being animal.mathewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00860741232962357228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-3113888323040244222007-10-24T17:49:00.000+05:302007-10-24T17:49:00.000+05:30It's really painful.. I also come up with such sit...It's really painful.. I also come up with such situations during some volunteering activities.. You feel so helpless.. I donno what can be done to change these conditions..Dhanyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08593715978123445004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-73508232653343996482007-10-24T14:02:00.000+05:302007-10-24T14:02:00.000+05:30hello anu :)me after long time. How ru ??? Me doin...hello anu :)<BR/><BR/>me after long time. How ru ??? Me doing fine.<BR/>I hope u remember me ?<BR/><BR/>As usual its intresting read ur posts <BR/><BR/>Take Care<BR/>Vikas{V}Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17673581050929465683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-88419223812181829592007-10-23T23:00:00.000+05:302007-10-23T23:00:00.000+05:30Oh gosh. Here we sit in our luxurious cubes, mindl...Oh gosh. Here we sit in our luxurious cubes, mindlessly working at some corporate grandiose plans and complaining of the minor trivialites in life, and you face such anguish and gut wrenching horror. Tears are burning as I write this, how many of these cases must be going on in the world. Think of the child she left behind.......Ur work must cut into your soul, I'm sure you have figured a way to not let it permeate into your home life, right? I hope your wonderful blog and writing gives you that release.Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13989340321224075830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10616050.post-91241382002118124752007-10-23T20:12:00.000+05:302007-10-23T20:12:00.000+05:30High time it is changed to Bold. Spunky and Smart ...<I>High time it is changed to Bold. Spunky and Smart …And of course ‘Self-sufficient...’</I><BR/><BR/>Yes, that is it. But this has to begin when they are young; only then it will work...<BR/><BR/>Really touching...Alexishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16234013656291357434noreply@blogger.com